Notice I didn’t say marriage because I don’t think
every Woman wants or needs to be married.
But I damn sure think every Woman needs a WEDDING….what?! I look at
weddings as Bat Mitzvahs, Debutante Balls, and Quinceaneras for adult
Women. The Woman is the Belle of the
Ball, Diva, Princess & Queen, all rolled into one, for the Day.
It is an unfortunate fact that a lot of women have
been dreaming of their wedding day from the moment they became aware such a day
existed. Some have every detail in their
head if not written down in some wedding-hope binder; the only missing element
is the guy to drop into the picture. Why
go through all that when each woman can just have a Wedding?
These events could be called: Solo or Self Weddings. Traditionally a wedding is defined as: the act or ceremony of marrying; and marrying is defined as taking an intimate life partner by a formal exchange of
promises in the manner of a ceremony. Who is more intimate than ourselves? No one I
say. A woman would be marrying herself, promising to love, honor and cherish her
being/essence/spirit always, forsaking any and everyone who desires, requires,
and wishes her to abandon her dreams and individuality.
So I say every woman should have a Wedding, going all
out and planning a celebration of herself and her dreams. By having a Solo/Self Wedding women can shop
for and buy the most important element of any wedding: The Dress!
Women have been known to overlook a completely inappropriate
mate, who can be fixed with just a little work, just to wear The Dress. With a Solo a woman can sparkle and dazzle in
The Dress without having to carry the extra weight of husband fixing on her
back. With a Solo she gets to pick the guy
who may not be marriage material but will look fabulous in the pictures! And
then at the end of the day he goes home. So plan on, all you Brides-For-A-Day…WooHoo!
And have your perfect Wedding…
I hope this has been Tasty & Informative like
Cupcakes & Travel Magazines…
Until the next time…Valerie
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