Notice I didn’t say marriage because I don’t think every Woman wants or needs to be married. But I damn sure think every Woman needs a WEDDING….what?! I look at weddings as Bat Mitzvahs, Debutante Balls, and Quinceaneras for adult Women. The Woman is the Belle of the Ball, Diva, Princess & Queen, all rolled into one, for the Day.
It is an unfortunate fact that a lot of women have been dreaming of their wedding day from the moment they became aware such a day existed. Some have every detail in their head if not written down in some wedding-hope binder; the only missing element is the guy to drop into the picture. Why go through all that when each woman can just have a Wedding?
These events could be called: Solo or Self Weddings. Traditionally a wedding is defined as: the act or ceremony of marrying; and marrying is defined as taking an intimate life partner by a formal exchange of promises in the manner of a ceremony. Who is more intimate than ourselves? No one I say. A woman would be marrying herself, promising to love, honor and cherish her being/essence/spirit always, forsaking any and everyone who desires, requires, and wishes her to abandon her dreams and individuality.
So I say every woman should have a Wedding, going all out and planning a celebration of herself and her dreams. By having a Solo/Self Wedding women can shop for and buy the most important element of any wedding: The Dress!
Women have been known to overlook a completely inappropriate mate, who can be fixed with just a little work, just to wear The Dress. With a Solo a woman can sparkle and dazzle in The Dress without having to carry the extra weight of husband fixing on her back. With a Solo she gets to pick the guy who may not be marriage material but will look fabulous in the pictures! And then at the end of the day he goes home. So plan on, all you Brides-For-A-Day…WooHoo! And have your perfect Wedding…
I hope this has been Tasty & Informative like Cupcakes & Travel Magazines…
Until the next time…Valerie